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Friends Forever?
Years ago a friend from high school told me that I ‘did friend’ really well. She is no longer my friend. This loss has been deeply disturbing to me. She and I met in French class, a language she was … Continue reading
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Tagged availability, bitterness, bonds, boundaries, dependence, disturbing loss, high school friend, limits of friendship, natural loss, outlasting welcome, privacy, regret, renewed friendship, resistance to help, retiring, transitions
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Trying To Control My Universe
When I joined Alanon over sixteen years ago one of the most difficult notions for me to accept was “you didn’t cause this, you can’t cure it, and you can’t control it”. Damn. I thought they’d help me to convince … Continue reading
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Tagged boundaries, controlling others, difficult issues with mates, relationship issues
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